There isn’t just one way to be charismatic, nor does one charisma style work in every situation. When are certain styles more effective? Which style will suit you best? Determining your preferred charisma style and knowing when to use it is a crucial step toward fulfilling your charisma potential. 

Different kinds of charisma will be appropriate in different circumstances. And different kinds of charisma will be a better or poorer fit for you. To decide which elements of charisma to bring out you’ll need to assess three indicators: what’s best suited to your personality, your goals, and the situation. 

Your personality: It’s important to know what feels right for you, and to choose the styles, tools, and techniques that match your signature strengths. 

Your goals: You also need to be clear on what you want to achieve. Some modes of charisma will make people obey you, others will lead them to open up and share. 

The situation: What context are you stepping into? The situation sets the stage upon which your charisma will play out.