Unit 4 Science and technology-Topic exploration
Even in Real Life There Were Screens Between Us
Still the Google chat box said, "Paul is typing."
Paul was the guy I met in October at a meeting. Since then we started video chatting for hours every night.
1.chat box:聊天框
2.typing:正在打字中
One night, when we talked too late, I fell asleep with my laptop open and woke up seven hours later. He was still there, asleep.
Then he woke up too and said, "Hi, you."
"Hi," I said. "How did you sleep?"
1.asleep:睡着的
2.laptop:笔记本电脑
As the weeks went on, I told Paul about my last boyfriend, a guy I had met in computer class and dated for almost two years. He listened quietly and gave good, clear-eyed advice about letting go. He also told me about his ex-girlfriend, who never appreciated his work.
1.ex-girlfriend:前女友
2.appreciated: 认可,赞赏
In the safety of my room, I could see Paul, but I couldn't touch him. I could summon him when I wanted to talk, but I never knew him in any light other than the one from the lamp by his bed.I could call him any time I liked; I could avoid him any time I wanted, because just one click of the mouse would shut him out of my room.
1. safety: 安全
2. touch:接触
3. summon:召唤
4. lamp:灯
5. click of the mouse:点击鼠标
"I really like you," he said one night.
"I really like you too," I said. "I don't know what that means."
I wanted to find out. So in early March I borrowed a car, begged my boss to let me out of work a day early, and drove 540 miles to spend a long weekend in the city where Paul lived.
1. begged:乞求,恳求
Paul was almost exactly as I expected. He stood waiting at the side of the street while I parked my car. We kissed on the street. I felt relieved and thought: "This works in real life."
1.expected:预期的,期待的
2.relieved:不再忧虑,减轻,缓解,解除
But after we kissed and ate pizza and went back to his house, we struggled for things to talk about. In real life, Paul stared off at nothing while I talked. In real life, he had no questions about the drive or my job. He took me out for dinner and read his e-mail while we waited for our food.
1.struggled for:为某事而斗争,挣扎
2.stared:盯着,凝视,注视
He took me to a party at his friend's house where they proceeded to argue for hours about Web design while I sat on a chair and stared at the ceiling, drunk and bored. I felt all this seemed like a game: a constant dance of reaching for me and pulling back, of closeness and distance, of real life and Internet make-believe.
1. proceeded:继续进行
2.web design:网页设计
3.drunk:喝醉的,醉醺醺的
4.bored:无聊的
5.constant:经常的
6.distance:距离,疏远
The day I left him while he was out at work, I wrote him a note, willing myself not to cry: "Dear Paul, thank you so much for having me this weekend. It meant a lot to me to spend time with you in person."
1.in person: 亲自
Proper name:
1. Google
2. chat room

